hey I need so help/advice. I've been recently seeing this guy and he wants me to shave my pussy. I keep it trimmed, personal preference. but when I shave my bikini line, it can get irritated and i'm afraid my pussy will do that. I've heard that it hurts when you have sex because of their others hair. what do you recommend? should I give it a go or not...?
In my experience with body hair, it will always grow back, so if it’s something you’re curious about then for sure give it a go. However, if you’re doing this because you feel obligated because of his preference and it’s not what you want to see or feel down there than it’s your body and you have a right to say it’s just not for you. Having sex with pubic hair definitely does not hurt, so don’t worry about that. And if you do decide to shave to try it out, use a moisturizing soap or shaving cream for sensitive skin and a new razor with good blades on it. If you find your skin is irritated afterwards try soothing it with aloe. More than anything though, do what you want for your body and if the guy you’re seeing isn’t cool with that, then he’s not worthy of it to begin with.