Anonymous

Is it possible to be a nymphomaniac even if you've never had sex?

Sure, I think people can be obsessed with all sorts of things they’ve never fully experienced.

Anonymous

Can you reccomend positions for someone with a smaller penis size?

The face between her legs position.

Anonymous

Hey Ninja! I love your blog, it causes me to explore my sexuality even more. Ive even thought about nude photography, but im very self conscious. But the more i see of your blog the more beautiful I feel.

Day by day, step by step. No need to rush. Let your confidence grow naturally, and I look forward to seeing you on SS someday. And remember you can start taking photos just for yourself. You don’t need to share them till you really want to.

Anonymous

I'm a girl and a virgin, and I keep condoms in my room and have for months just in case things lead that way. I'm not scared to have sex or anything, I was more scared of not having protection. My sister got pregnant at 16 and I couldn't handle that

Smart thinking, it’s very comforting to be prepared. And it’s valuable to learn from other people. Thanks for sharing and hopefully more ninjas will follow your lead.

ihearttehinterwebs

Who are those lovely models having sex in your recent post?

The models in the series from Ninja Approved; San Francisco I posted earlier are Owen Gray and Cadence Cross

Anonymous

What size knickers should I order for UK size 12?

Here is a link to the size chart for the ninja knickers.

Anonymous

I was so excited about the sale for ninja knickers, come to find shipping is an additional $7, even though we live in the same country. I'm super bummed because I really can't afford to spend $17 on a pair of underwear right now. I was wondering why you don't have a separate national shipping cost?

Thanks for letting me know, the price for shipping on the Ninja Knickers was the same for a t-shirt but since they are smaller and weigh less the shipping within Canada is a bit cheaper and I just adjusted it to reflect the proper amount. 

Anonymous

how do you feel about plastic surgery to fix insecuries?

I think plastic surgery can be invasive and risky. It also seems like a big game of chance whether you’ll feel better about yourself afterwards or whether you’ll keep finding more things you’d like to change once you start. I feel like it’s relative to any form of body modification though and in that it really works for some people and doesn’t for others. For some getting plastic surgery helps a lot to increase self esteem and self worth. Though it’s not something I’d want for myself, as I’d rather learn to accept myself for what I am and look totally natural. Though I don’t judge others for wanting it or getting it. My older sister actually has had multiple plastic surgery operations and seeing her transform her body over the course of her life has only made me feel more encouraged to accept mine for what it is. 
-Trouble

anulamou

Do you have any plans to come down to the Rochester/buffalo area? What do you look for in models? :-)

No travel plans at all coming up, and all I ask for in models is someone comfortable and confident with a bit of experience preferred. Ideally I’d love to shoot friends together, or couples or groups of any gender. I think the photos of Cam and Owen showed that you don’t need to do any kind of sex to make beautiful and sexy images. But it sure is interesting to see how other couples interact, so I’m interested in doing all sorts of shoots. 

Anonymous

I have a question for Trouble! I recently learned that it is legal to be topless in Ontario. As a fellow Ontarian (is that even correct? I don't know!) I'm actually intrigued by the idea! Do you think you could ever go topless in public?

I think unfortunately our society is still a long way away from being comfortable with bare breasts. If I could go topless without being gawked or stared at or felt under the heavy gaze of the older men who already like to cat call me from their trucks on the street I’d do it in a minute. But I know that wouldn’t be my experience so I can’t see it happening anytime soon. If nipples are still having to be censored on instragram it’s clear the world isn’t ready to grow up yet, which is a shame.  
-Trouble

Anonymous

Ninja/trouble--my bf and I have been having sex for a few months and it's been getting better & better. I'm on the pill, and we've always used condoms, but recently we tried without one and it felt amazing for us both--and now sex with a condom doesn't match up. But I really can't risk getting pregnant, so what can we do?! (sorry if it's an odd q)

If you’re on the pill and are taking it regularly the chances of you getting pregnant are pretty slim, though ensuring your partner doesn’t cum inside of you is a good way to maintain peace of mind. Another thing to consider if you want to be extra cautious is getting to know your cycle and following the rhythm method as well. By being extra aware of what days of the month you are most fertile you can understand what days you need to be extra careful. 
-Trouble

Anonymous

hello ninjas! So my bf and I wanted to try anal for the first time and we both have no real experience with it. Does it hurt and any advice for us? stay awesome x

Take it slow, use lots of lube and work up to it by anal play with your fingers or toys. It can hurt at first, as the body’s instinct is to clench up and deny penetration, but once you relax and allow it to happen it can feel really amazing. Be sure to communicate with your partner and let him know if you need him to slow down or stop. I find if I masturbate as Ninja is entering me I relax a lot more and just enjoy the sensation. 
-Trouble

Anonymous

I recently had sex with an aquaintance because i was bored and he was bad. But i didnt know how to tell him nicely so i said was good.. How would you break it to someone that they are bad at sex?

Unfortunately nobody would learn how to improve themselves if they thought they were doing things right all along. You certainly don’t want to be mean to this person or make them feel bad about themselves, as everyone has different preferences when it comes to sex and some are more experienced than others. If your acquaintance asks you again how they were or you decide to have sex again with this person then give them subtle pointers of things you do like so they can learn from experience. Remember too that having sex with someone because you’re bored isn’t necessarily fair to the other person, unless they’re aware of this or it’s mutual. Be sure you’re being mindful of this other person’s feelings too. 
-Trouble

Anonymous

I have been a follower for a while so I know you only post submissions that are done well. I am very curious about bigger people. Do you not get many submissions or are they not done well? I enjoy photography a ton and consider myself good at it being a bigger woman I would like to submit to you guys but wasn't sure how well it would be received. Also keep up the sex and body positive blog you do an amazing job :)

We honestly don’t get as many submissions from bigger people that are done well. Since my time helping on NN I have noticed the majority of the submissions we receive come from mostly thin, light skinned ninjas. We would love to be able to post a variety of body types and ethnicities so we encourage anyone out there who sees a lack in the diversity of the submissions we get to look at what we have posted (bestofnn is a good place to start) and strive to take submissions for us that are well composed and well lit and we’d love to post them. 
-Trouble

Anonymous

I have a fetish for biting, scratching, and being held down. It makes me feel like a freak, I don't know how to go about introducing this behavior with my partner. I'm concerned he'll reject it..

Scratching, biting, and being held down are all fairly normative kinks that you shouldn’t feel are a bad thing to want. Start gentle with your partner. Bite their lip gently the next time you’re kissing and then show how excited it gets you. Tell them they can bite you back if you want and see where they take it. And being held down during sex can be as simple as being asked. If he does reject it understand that it may not be a shared kink that the two of you can discuss afterwards without feeling embarrassment for wanting it, because it’s something many people share a want for and explore.
-Trouble