Hi Ninja and/or Trouble! I am in my early 20's and have had few relationships, all of which were fairly long. I have only been in a relationship with boys, but I am not sexually attracted to them. I am sexually attracted to girls, but I know I could never be emotionally in love like I can with a boy. I don't know what to do, and I was wondering if you had any advice because it would be much appreciated.
I’d say since you’re in your early twenties you might not totally know the boundaries and abilities of your emotions. I’d suggest trying a relationship with a female and if after feeling comfortable and letting it develop you still don’t feel an attachment like you wish you felt, then you can move on and know you need to be with a guy but at least you tried.