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Adorable. Thanks for sharing your ninjas meeting ninjas story.
If you can orgasm alone I suggest you two masturbating together instead of having sex, he needs to learn about two important things one of them is patience and the other is your body. He needs to learn that your body is not a machine that can cum at the push of a button, it’s much more intricate than that plus pressure,thoughts and emotions have a huge impact on your ability to orgasm so the more he makes a deal about it the less likely you’ll be able to relax enough to actually peak. Tell him you want him to see you orgasm, but you have to do it alone. Let him sit back and watch how you do it and if you want you can invite him to suck your breasts or kiss your neck to help. But maybe you should save that for the second time.
Well like relationships love also comes and goes, but if you’ve got something good going on besides an inexperienced partner it’s possible for things to improve. It’s sad but true, a lot of guys have no fucking clue how to actually please a women so they need to be taught. If you take the time to explain what you enjoy, and what he needs to do to help you orgasm hopefully he’ll take notes and improve. If he continues to just have sex for himself, then I definitely suggest finding a more considerate partner.
Be direct about your feelings, saying something open ended like “experiment in bed more” could mean anything. Instead pick one thing you want to try the most and say I want to try “blank” with you. It could be bondage, spanking, sex in different places or positions. But since you’re the one who wants to try different things, you should pick the ones you want to experience and let him know about it.
Yes, that’s a great idea. Explaining to your partner what gets you off and what you enjoy is incredibly important. Thanks for sharing.
I agree with you, but I’d suggest avoiding the word “adorable” when it comes to his penis. That word has too many connection to kid and child stuff, and it might make him feel more self conscious. Instead tell him that his penis is perfect. If he knows and believes he is all you need and want, he’ll learn to appreciate and accept what he has and not worry about it.
We both feel great about everyone and anyone over 18 submitting, we just ask for effort to be put into the photo and to take the best picture you can. Nothing else matters.
I think missionary would be best for him, this gives him the control over the depth and speed of which he enters you. I’m sure his main concern will be cumming too fast, so the more control he has the better he will feel. But also encourage him and if he does cum fast, let him know how much you enjoyed seeing him orgasm. It might even be a good idea to make him cum from oral or something first so that he might be able to last a bit longer before he ejaculates a second time. Assuming you’re not on birth control and even though he has never had sex before, you should make sure he wears a condom for many reasons one of them being his orgasm could be unpredictable so it’s best to be safe. Good luck and no matter what happens remember it’s just going to get better for both of you.